I've got some tough love.

I hear people say this all the time, "I'm too busy!"

Have you ever considered saying no, Reader?

You get to decide what you commit to.

We all have seasons of busyness but if you're constantly running from thing to thing, every day of the week, 52 weeks a year, when do you stop and rest?

When do you allow yourself to just be a human being, not only a human doing?

This morning I wanted to go and volunteer at a public garden. The group meets weekly and it's always a highlight whenever I get to see them. It's not about the work we do, it's about the people.

After spending some time reflecting on my week and upcoming weeks, I decided to skip.

No one knew I would or wouldn't be there. I don't usually RSVP. But I still feel a commitment to attend because I'm in the group email.

Why is that?

I'm sure this requires more thought than I'm willing to give but the most obvious reason is the expectation I put on myself to be a "yes" girl.

I challenge you to find 1 thing on your calendar that can be removed. Or maybe you try to reschedule or recommit to that activity once a month instead of weekly.

This is for you as much as it is for me!

We can all be better about to whom we give away our time. Say yes with intention.

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🌱Tip of the week!

As often as possible, opt for plastic as a last resort. There is no limit to how frequently glass can be recycled. Paper can be recycled 5 to 7 times over compared to 1 to 2 with plastic.

Cheers to intentional, simple,
clean-er living
*xo Kaila*

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